The Memory Quilt Was Not Memorable
Posted in Books on 12/15/2010 08:00 am by JennJakes, T.D. The Memory Quilt: A Christmas Story for Our Times. Atria Books (2009).
A perfect Christmas for Lela Edwards this year would include the presence of her husband, her three daughters, and her favorite granddaughter, Darcie. They would each be happy, healthy, and properly married. But life doesn’t always unfold in a perfect way, even for God-loving, churchgoing people like these. Lela’s husband of fifty years, Walter, has recently passed, and the daughters now live in towns and states far from the Chicago neighborhood where they were raised.
Darcie is traveling to Missouri City, Texas, to be with her mother, not to Chicago to be with her grandmother, whom she expects to come down hard on her for deciding to divorce her husband and the father of her unborn child. Lela is upset and annoyed with Darcie and herself for breaking her own time-honored tradition of making a quilt to celebrate each family wedding. The quilt is still in separate pieces, and apparently so is the marriage of Doug and Darcie.
The Christmas season is about celebrating the birth and meaning of Christ; about the hope and inspiration that the story we revisit each year offers. So, as the days of the season progress, Lela participates in a Bible study group that focuses on the Virgin Mary. This is the cold season in Chicago and rough weather, literally and figuratively, is ahead for Lela, her family, neighbors, and fellow church members, but in the Scriptures are messages and guidance. If they heed the lessons of the Virgin Mary, they will learn from their mistakes and misjudgments of each other and find favor with God.
The thing I liked about this book is that it reminds me that Jesus is the Reason for the Season. (I love that saying!) Often we forget what is truly important at this time of year and we forget to reflect on why we started celebrating Christmas in the first place. The story itself carries a good lesson and it’s not very preachy. Through the main character Lela, we are reminded that charity and open-mindedness is something that we could use all year round, but it is especially relevant during the holidays. The story is punctuated with passages from the Bible about Mary and the birth of Jesus. I liked how when Lela reflected on those passages she asked questions, she thought about what it would have been like, instead of just passive acceptance.
The story itself was just ho-hum. I think the messages were more powerful than the characters or the plot lines. I found it a little difficult to get into the actual story and I felt that the characters had a lot going on in their heads, but what we read was only what was said. The characters seemed shallow and it was difficult to figure out everyone’s motivation. It was a good Christmas story in that it related a lot to Christmas, but if you took that away, it didn’t evoke as much feeling as it should have. I give this one 3 French Hens.







